blog no. 12: Jimmy Carter, Who Gives A Crap, Preet Bharara


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Greetings from the beautiful rocky coast of Maine. I drove six hours from the heart of New York City and have transported myself to the most gorgeous of settings--a little artist cottage on the edge of the vast Atlantic Ocean. I write this from a large picture window where all I see is water and sky. It is just me and the ducks so far. I am sure I am going to get to know the sky like I never knew it before.

I had a good laugh this morning--me, the eternal Jewish mother whose philosophy is sadly "when in doubt, worry..." Gazing out on the vast ocean before me, I spotted a lone duck swimming all alone by the shore and a much larger group of ducks quite a bit away. I immediately started worrying that this little guy was lost and the rest of the flock hadn’t noticed… Well, good news and a sigh of relief--he/she/they is on the way back to the others.

And on a more somber note, in light of this week's horrible events which appear to be hate crimes around Atlanta, Georgia, I'd like all of us to be reminded of this quote that originated in Nazi Germany by a Lutheran Pastor named Martin Niemöller.

"First they came for the socialists, and I did not speak out—because I was not a socialist. Then they came for the trade unionists, and I did not speak out— because I was not a trade unionist. Then they came for the Jews, and I did not speak out—because I was not a Jew. Then they came for me—and there was no one left to speak for me."

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Willie Nelson, Roslyn Carter and Jimmy Carter

Willie Nelson, Roslyn Carter and Jimmy Carter

Bob Dylan and Jimmy Carter

Bob Dylan and Jimmy Carter

If you have any doubt that Jimmy Carter was one of the coolest presidents the United States has ever had, think no more. The recent CNN documentary Jimmy Carter Rock and Roll President confirms it. Aside from his political accomplishments in the field of conservation, the Salt II Agreement, and the Camp David Accords (establishing peace between Israel and Egypt), Carter's other deep love and passion was for music. He was friends with a myriad of rock and roll and jazz musicians and they were frequent visitors to the White House. (Willie Nelson was even purported to have smoked pot with Carter's son inside those walls...). Bob Dylan spoke of Carter as "A man you don’t meet every day and you are lucky if you do…." and the Allman Brothers helped propel him into the presidency with their fundraising concerts...I always thought Jimmy Carter got a bad rap as being a weak president, mostly because of the Iran Hostage crisis. But in my mind, he was a gentle man, a true humanitarian and to this day at 96, still at it, building homes for his beloved Habitat for Humanity and speaking out on issues that matter...I absolutely loved this documentary and if you want to read a good review and synopsis of it, go to Mary Lucia's (aka Looch) Minnesota Public Radio podcast The Current.

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Aren’t these rolls beautiful!

Aren’t these rolls beautiful!

Californians in general are always a few steps ahead of the game in recognizing climate change and what we can do about it in terms of conservation, recycling and sustainability. My friend Barb at wholechampion.org has turned me onto something I wanted to share with you and you are probably going to laugh at this one (or roll your eyes--no pun intended) and say, why is this on her list?. Because I am going to talk to you about toilet paper and tell you about a company where I intend to buy it from now on. The company is called Who Gives A Crap and they donate 50 percent of their profits to building toilets for people in need around the globe. (Did you know that diarrheal diseases caused by poor water, sanitation and lack of toilets account for 1 in 9 child deaths worldwide, making diarrhea the second leading cause of death among children under the age of 5.) And I know you are now thinking, must be like sandpaper. Well, I have tried it and it is very soft, affordable ($1.00 a roll), wrapped in pretty wrapping for us designerly types, and includes free shipping. What could be better?

If you are wanting to do more, check out this other company, the Wild Minimalist. They are trying to make it easier for people to begin their journey towards a zero waste lifestyle by vetting and offering the best quality products, partnering with sustainable businesses and shipping purchases in recyclable or compostable packaging. Many of their suggestions might be items our grandparents would have used--full circle back to the natural. We can all do our part...

I fell upon this podcast this morning as I was researching other things and decided to dedicate my post this week to former U.S. Attorney Preet Bharara’s podcast Stay Tuned interview with Atlantic Magazine's Anne Applebaum instead of something else. I found it so important and compelling and it also left me slightly hopeful too. The occasion was Applebaum’s new book Twilight of Democracy, which seems like a must read for anyone interested in politics these days as she explores the subject of authoritarianism. She puts it into context by comparing it in her native Poland, England and the United States: how it comes about, its historical roots, reasons for its attraction and most interesting of all to me, her ideas on how we might go about preventing its rise. These are two very smart people discussing this very important issue of the day--how to protect and save our democracy. Couldn’t ask for a better interview/conversation between two learned individuals.


painting of the week

Seagull (Yellow Spruce Series)   mixed media on canvas   54” x 80” approx.

Seagull (Yellow Spruce Series) mixed media on canvas 54” x 80” approx.


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Self Portrait going grey in the time of Covid…

Self Portrait going grey in the time of Covid…


About The Author

New York City based contemporary artist, Pam Smilow created the creative lifestyle blog “things we love” in an effort to foster a sense of community during times of isolation and reflection. To read more about her, check out the essay written by the Hammond Museum's Frank Matheis entitled The Sophisticated Innocence of Pam Smilow.

blog no. 11: Joe's Violin, Naomi Shihab Nye, Hans Silvester


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In Honor of Women’s History Month March 2021.  This 7 foot tall bronze statue was just erected in Ginsburg’s native Brooklyn, New York.   Created by artists Gillie and Marc, Ginsburg herself consulted with the artists on it before her death.   

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Joe Feingold and Bronx Global Learning Institute for Girls student Brianna Perez

Joe Feingold and Bronx Global Learning Institute for Girls student Brianna Perez

Recipients of the instrument drive

Recipients of the instrument drive

This sweet little documentary, Joe's Violin, had me crying (in a good way) almost from the moment it started…This touching story begins with an old man, his violin and his memories of what music meant to him growing up in war torn Europe. Years later, in New York City, responding to an instrument drive run by the Mr. Holland's Opus Foundation (inspired by the movie Mr. Holland's Opus) he decided to donate a violin his fingers could no longer maneuver. It is amazing how this simple act transformed his life and that of the recipient of his instrument and her school, the Bronx Global Learning Institute for Girls in New York City. As usual, there is an amazing teacher behind this too...Kokoe Tanaka-Suwan, was nationally recognized as a nominee for the prestigious Music Educator Grammy Award in 2020.

Poet Naomi Shihab Nye born to a Palestinian Father and American mother

Poet Naomi Shihab Nye born to a Palestinian Father and American mother

The poet, Naomi Shihab Nye was featured and interviewed last week on Krista Tippett's podcast On Being. This particular poem struck a cord with me. If you would like to hear the poet read it aloud to you, click here. Or just read it below on your own.

KINDNESS
by Naomi Shihab Nye

Listen
Before you know what kindness really is
you must lose things,
feel the future dissolve in a moment
like salt in a weakened broth.
What you held in your hand,
what you counted and carefully saved,
all this must go so you know
how desolate the landscape can be
between the regions of kindness.
How you ride and ride
thinking the bus will never stop,
the passengers eating maize and chicken
will stare out the window forever.
Before you learn the tender gravity of kindness,
you must travel where the Indian in a white poncho
lies dead by the side of the road.
You must see how this could be you,
how he too was someone
who journeyed through the night with plans
and the simple breath that kept him alive.
Before you know kindness as the deepest thing inside,
you must know sorrow as the other deepest thing.
You must wake up with sorrow.
You must speak to it till your voice
catches the thread of all sorrows
and you see the size of the cloth.
Then it is only kindness that makes sense anymore,
only kindness that ties your shoes
and sends you out into the day to gaze at bread,
only kindness that raises its head
It is I you have been looking for,
and then goes with you everywhere
like a shadow or a friend.

To hear Naomi Shihab Nye talk more about her work, click here

Couldn't be more excited to present to you this amazing book of photographs of the peoples of the Omo Valley taken by the esteemed German photographer Hans Silvester. I have looked at this book Natural Fashion: Tribal Decoration From Africa countless times over the years (it was published in 2008) and it never ceases to get my heart pounding with sheer excitement at such beauty! The Surma and Mursi tribes, located where the lands of Ethiopia, Kenya and Sudan meet, paint and adorn themselves and each other in the most aesthetically exciting and artistically creative ways--carrying on a tradition of their people that has been around for hundreds if not thousands of years. Using natural pigments found in their environment, this body painting is one of the most incredible uses of natural elements in fashion and art but also has its roots in practicality by protecting against the sun, acting as an insect repellent and warding off evil. Thanks to anneofcarversville.com, who is as fascinated as I am with this book, here is a compilation of quotes from Silvester himself, describing his twelve trips to that area and some of the things he learned about these nomadic people and their amazing bodyart.


painting of the week

Signs of Spring 1-3 mixed media/ledger paper  (from a Texas general store in 1929!), 27 1/2 x 19 3/4” each, $1500/panel,  $3800/set of 3”

Signs of Spring 1-3 mixed media/ledger paper (from a Texas general store in 1929!), 27 1/2 x 19 3/4” each, $1500/panel, $3800/set of 3”


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Self Portrait going grey in the time of Covid…

Self Portrait going grey in the time of Covid…


About The Author

New York City based contemporary artist, Pam Smilow created the creative lifestyle blog “things we love” in an effort to foster a sense of community during times of isolation and reflection. To read more about her, check out the essay written by the Hammond Museum's Frank Matheis entitled The Sophisticated Innocence of Pam Smilow.

blog no. 10: Bhangra Dance, Andre and his Olive Tree, Patrick Hutchinson, Kafka


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Look what our neighbors to the north are doing to celebrate diversity! Dancing the Bhangra, a Punjabi folk dance led by Gurdeep Pandhera, a joyous Sikh immigrant who emigrated from India to Canada is on a mission to spread joy. Wouldn't it be great if our police spent more time dancing, communing with their community and celebrating the people they protect. I dare you to get up wherever you are right now and follow along--smiles on every face, including yours!


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Chinese Chef Andre Chiang

Chinese Chef Andre Chiang

The documentary Andre and His Olive Tree, available on Netflix, tells the story of the highly celebrated Asian chef André Chiang and offers a behind the scenes look at his restaurants and what it takes to run such high end establishments. Chiang is a very interesting character, not afraid of change, and his highly acclaimed Singaporean restaurant Andre, the subject of the film, went out on a high note, closing its doors at the height of its success in 2018. If you are still curious, you might like to listen to this extensive interview with him. And click here to stay current and find out what Chiang is up to now--I for one am planning to visit his new venture in Japan once the pandemic is over...

Hector Guest Sculpture of Patrick Hutchinson

Hector Guest Sculpture of Patrick Hutchinson

This photo of Englishman Patrick Hutchinson carrying a white supremecist to safety in the midst of a Black Lives Matter protest in London is an image that has resonated around the world, even inspiring a sculpture about him and his heroic act. Raised by a single mom in London, England, now a father and grandparent many times over himself, Hutchinson's story is one of a simple act of kindness by a regular citizen, who despite differing opinions, took it upon himself to save a life of a fellow human being. Hutchinson attributes his values to the compassion and empathy he learned from his mom. In his own words: "I hope that if there's one thing you can take away from that picture, its unity. It doesn't matter to me the color of a person's skin or even their views, if they're a person in need then I will save them and I would do it again. We don't have to be friends afterwards, but I'm there to help anyone in need. If we were all like that, I think society would be a better place." Featured in many publications including GQ Magazine in December 2020, Hutchinson also caught the attention of Prince Harry, who sat down with him for an extensive conversation, revealing to me the decency and compassion of both men.

Franz Kafka

Franz Kafka

I came across this delightful piece regarding Franz Kafka and a missing doll on someone's facebook post this week. On further look, there are many versions of this story and some doubt as to all its details, but I thought you might enjoy it in any case, especially coming from a writer who we might not necessarily think of as associated with such a tender act of kindness...Here goes the story:
At 40, Franz Kafka (1883-1924), found himself walking through a park in Berlin when he met a little girl who was crying. She had lost her precious doll and was looking everywhere for it. Kafka joined in the hunt but they were not able to find it. When they parted, Kafka told her to come back the next day and they would try again. The next day brought no better luck so Kafka, who had thought ahead, pulled out a letter he had brought with him "written" by the doll, telling the little girl "please don't cry. I took a trip to see the world. I will write to you about my adventures." Kafka continued to write these letters until the end of his life in 1924, when he passed away at the age of 41 from tuberculosis. During his meetings with the little girl, Kafka read the letters of the doll, carefully written with her adventures and conversations. The little girl loved listening to this correspondence and delighted in it. One day, Kafka came carrying a doll which he had bought, saying the doll had returned to Berlin. When the little girl said "It doesn't look like my doll at all," Kafka handed her another letter in which the doll wrote: "my travels have changed me." That satisfied her and she gave the doll a big hug, happily bringing it home. Kafka died soon after. Many years later, the now-adult girl found a letter inside the doll. In the tiny letter signed by Kafka it was written: "Everything you love will probably be lost, but in the end, love will return in another way."

And speaking of dolls, have you heard of the company Cuddle + Kind? They are one of my favorite places to buy new baby gifts..In addition to supporting a small business, their fair trade production employs women in Peru and a portion of their proceeds goes to feeding hungry children. To read their mission statement, click here.


painting of the week

Pam Smilow Blue Composition with Stripes and Dots and Moons mixed media on canvas. Recently sold painting in a beautiful home in Napa, California.

Pam Smilow Blue Composition with Stripes and Dots and Moons mixed media on canvas. Recently sold painting in a beautiful home in Napa, California.

If anyone is considering purchase of a new piece of art and/or just wants to see how it will look, I have a nifty new tool that enables me to transpose a painting on your wall without moving an inch from my desk (or yours). All I need is an email from you including a straight on photo of your wall (with some of the room around it for context) you will see instantly how art uplifts, excites, transforms and inspires...No purchase necessary if you want me to just play around...


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Self Portrait going grey in the time of Covid…

Self Portrait going grey in the time of Covid…


About The Author

New York City based contemporary artist, Pam Smilow created the creative lifestyle blog “things we love” in an effort to foster a sense of community during times of isolation and reflection. To read more about her, check out the essay written by the Hammond Museum's Frank Matheis entitled The Sophisticated Innocence of Pam Smilow.

blog no. 9: Sixto Rodriguez, Brownies, Harry Belafonte


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This is an eclectic blog. The different entries might seem disjointed and unrelated at times. All I can say is this is a journey into my brain and memories of things I have loved over the years throughout my whole life. So far it seems like a bottomless font and I am amazed and what is showing up! I hope it is bringing you at least some of the pleasure that it is bringing me...

Our Giveaway Collaborators, A.Gallo Colors, has a restock sale beginning today, Sunday February 28, 2021. Click on their name to see their offerings and buy these amazing paints beginning at 10am--don't hesitate as they sell out almost immediately...

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Sixto Rodgiguez, musician and subject of film Searching for Sugar Man

Sixto Rodgiguez, musician and subject of film Searching for Sugar Man

My late husband, Gert Mathiesen, was a passionate guy and he got very excited about things. This story of the musician Sixto Rodriguez in the movie Searching for Sugar Man caught his attention in a big way and was his subject of choice in the days leading up to Gert's sudden death of an aneurysm in 2013--he said he thought it was the most incredible story of the 20th century. Take the time to watch this amazing movie and story (it costs $3.99 on Amazon Prime) and judge for yourself. I don't want to say too much more about it before you see it.

Delicious Brownie Recipe made from unexpected ingredients Courtesy chocolatecoveredkatie.com/

Delicious Brownie Recipe made from unexpected ingredients Courtesy chocolatecoveredkatie.com/

Talk about unrelated--here's a crazy brownie recipe that you probably will make a face at on first glance. Believe me, I almost didn't try it myself but I have some relatives that are gluten free so I baked these before one of our family holiday getaways. Make them and then don't tell anyone what is in it and I guarantee you they will never guess the ingredients--they are as fudgy and delicious as you would expect of any brownie and very low on weight watcher points to boot! One tip: don't skimp on the chocolate chips...

Harry Belafonte, singer, songwriter, activist, actor

Harry Belafonte, singer, songwriter, activist, actor

I was first introduced to Harry Belafonte as a kid when I would see my dad sitting down in our living room, sparkly red set of bongos between his knees, drumming along to the beat of calypso music--most usually Harry Belafonte. He was always a hero in my family, not just for his music but for his unrelentless activism, which continues to this day as he turns 94. As an old friend of his, Bo Taylor, once noted, "from the time he got up to the time he went to sleep, he would always be seeking out the injustices done to humankind…"
A few years back, a wonderful documentary came out about him, called Sing Your Song. The talented filmmaker, Susanne Rostock, happens to be a friend of mine who I met through National Dance Institute (both our kids participated in their dance program). To quote her, "Harry is so full of optimism and his optimism is infectious...it makes you want to join him..." And if you want to immerse yourself totally, for $25, join the virtual celebration today Sunday February 28th at 7pm ET for his surprise 94th birthday party including Usher, JayZ among many others... Tickets available here


painting of the week

Pam Smilow   Yellow Spruce Series   mixed media on canvas   $8500.

Pam Smilow Yellow Spruce Series mixed media on canvas $8500.

If anyone is considering purchase of a new piece of art and/or just wants to see how it will look, I have a nifty new tool that enables me to transpose a painting on your wall without moving an inch from my desk (or yours). All I need is an email from you including a straight on photo of your wall (with some of the room around it for context) you will see instantly how art uplifts, excites, transforms and inspires...No purchase necessary if you want to just play around...


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About The Author

New York City based contemporary artist, Pam Smilow created the creative lifestyle blog “things we love” in an effort to foster a sense of community during times of isolation and reflection. To read more about her, check out the essay written by the Hammond Museum's Frank Matheis entitled The Sophisticated Innocence of Pam Smilow.

blog no. 8: Wayne Dyer, A. Gallo Watercolors, Mary Oliver


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We are beyond excited and honored to be collaborating with A.Gallo Watercolors @agallocolors on this ***SPECIAL INSTAGRAM GIVEAWAY*** We are giving away two artworks by Pam Smilow and two of A.Gallo’s watercolor collections. The winner will receive: A. Gallo's full 48 palette watercolor set; an original mixed media Pam Smilow painting (choose among 3) measuring 20" x 16" on paper. One additional winner will receive: an A. Gallo Essential 6 pigment mini palette; and an 8" x 10" animal giclee print of your choice by Pam Smilow and Gert Mathiesen. ENTER TO WIN ON INSTAGRAM by following instructions at the bottom of this blog.


 
 

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Wayne Dyer’s film The Shift

Wayne Dyer’s film The Shift

Many of you might have heard of Wayne Dyer, the American author of many books on self help and spirituality. I can't remember when I first heard his name but I have been following him for a while now and always find something to relate to in his teachings. I admire his totally unpretentious, down to earth, compassionate style. Dyer's film The Shift is in a way a primer to his life's work. It may at first seem slightly hokey but stick with it--this seemingly simple film is, I believe, intentionally so as to reach out to a large audience and is actually very profound. He was a regular contributor to public television and after his death (1940-2015), PBS produced a commemorative series entitled The Forever Wisdom of Dr. Wayne Dyer. In addition to his many books, many interviews and material can be found on the internet about him if you want to explore further. There is a lot of wisdom to be had...And if you want to start right away, here's a lesson I found particularly useful on forgiveness.

A.Gallo Watercolors made by hand in Assisi, Italy.

A.Gallo Watercolors made by hand in Assisi, Italy.

Alina Santa Gallo and her small production watercolor "factory" A.Gallo Watercolors, is a marvel to me. I have known Alina, the daughter of one of my best friends, literally since the day she was born and she has blossomed into an incredible artist and small business owner. She and her husband Giulio make their watercolors in an Italian artisan workshop in Assisi, Italy, poured by hand and wrapped in individually painted labels. Each palette comes inside a professional artist tin with a Tintoretto brush. These beautiful paints are crafted with such love, according to a traditional recipe of raw pigments, gum arabic, local honey and rosemary essential oil and mulled by hand on a glass slab. Honey is added to help the paints retain water and increase their longevity. The colors are exquisite, rich, and so heavy on pigment and quality. Their business is doing so well that they sell out within hours after releasing a new batch. Take a look at the full array of their products in their shop and know that their next restock sale begins on February 28th (mark your calendars so you don't miss out) or enter our giveaway this week for a chance to win a set.

Portrait of poet Mary Oliver by illustrator Gillian Gamble  (www.gilliangamble.co.uk)  from the Children’s really cool book Holy Troublemakers & Unconventional Saints by Daneen Akers

Portrait of poet Mary Oliver by illustrator Gillian Gamble (www.gilliangamble.co.uk) from the Children’s really cool book Holy Troublemakers & Unconventional Saints by Daneen Akers

I thought this Mary Oliver poem paired nicely with Wayne Dyer's message in his film The Shift.

The Journey
by Mary Oliver

One day you finally knew
what you had to do, and began,
though the voices around you
kept shouting
their bad advice --
though the whole house
began to tremble
and you felt the old tug
at your ankles.
"Mend my life!"
each voice cried.
But you didn't stop.
You knew what you had to do,
though the wind pried
with its stiff fingers
at the very foundations,
though their melancholy
was terrible.
It was already late
enough, and a wild night,
and the road full of fallen
branches and stones.
But little by little,
as you left their voice behind,
the stars began to burn
through the sheets of clouds,
and there was a new voice
which you slowly
recognized as your own,
that kept you company
as you strode deeper and deeper
into the world,
determined to do
the only thing you could do
determined to save
the only life that you could save.

And for those who want to learn more, here is a good interview with Mary Oliver from Krista Tippett's podcast On Being.


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About The Author

New York City based contemporary artist, Pam Smilow created the creative lifestyle blog “things we love” in an effort to foster a sense of community during times of isolation and reflection. To read more about her, check out the essay written by the Hammond Museum's Frank Matheis entitled The Sophisticated Innocence of Pam Smilow.

blog no. 7; James Baldwin, Challah, Searching for Bobby Fischer


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I remember my first eureka moment about the internet. After years trying to reproduce (unsuccessfully) a cup of deliciously sweet Moroccan mint tea I had so enjoyed in Marrakesh many years prior, I discovered maybe I could look it up. Through my search, I found that I had been leaving out a key ingredient: green tea. Mystery solved after wondering about it for quite a few years! Sounds trivial but I am struck by how much we take for granted regarding access to information: we have a full expansive library literally at our fingertips 24/7. Technology has its good and bad sides, but for this endless access to resources, I am eternally grateful...


HAPPY VALENTINE’S DAY from me (and courtesy Jill Biden)

HAPPY VALENTINE’S DAY from me (and courtesy Jill Biden)

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Great American writer James Baldwin

Great American writer James Baldwin

Without leaving my desk, I have spent the last few days with the great American writer James Baldwin. Two things I choose to share with you here are a letter he wrote to his nephew in 1962 and an interview he did with the CBC (Canadian Broadcasting Corporation) entitlted On Being Black in America, both still, sadly, very relevant today almost 60 years later. For those who want to delve deeper, he has written many books and essays, and the internet affords many other opportunities to hear him in his own words, including a notable debate between Baldwin and William F. Buckley at Cambridge University in 1965.

Recipe for Challah Bread

Recipe for Challah Bread

"With bread, all sorrows are less" words spoken by the character Sancho Panza in the novel Don Quixote.

One of my favorite childhood memories was a bread "bake-in" I attended at the local library in Katonah, New York, where we built an outside oven and sculpted bread dough into animal shapes before baking. I made a snail. The pandemic seems a perfect time to try this again (minus the outdoor oven). Everyone should make bread at least once in their lifetime! Here is a SIMPLE RECIPE FOR CHALLAH, a good and easy place to start: Ingredients: 1 stick melted butter/1 pkg. active dry yeast/1.5 cups warm water/pinch of sugar/3 large eggs/1/2 cup honey/5-6 cups flour (1-2 cups of which can be whole wheat)/1 tbsp salt/1 egg lightly beaten with a little bit of water/sesame or poppy seeds (optional) Instructions: Melt butter in sm. saucepan, set aside to cool a bit/Pour approx. 1 tbsp butter in large bowl and swish around to coat sides/dissolve yeast in 1/2 cup water, add pinch of sugar and set aside. In large bowl, beat together eggs, honey and melted butter. Add remaining 1 cup warm water and mix well. Add yeast. Add flour, with salt, 1 cup at a time, blending well after each addition cup until dough is thick enough to work by hand. Spoon dough onto floured work surface and knead for several minutes. Add 1 cup raisins here (optional). Add more flour to make a smooth elastic dough. Rub top of dough in the buttered bowl , then flip dough over and nestle inside. Cover the dough with clean kitchen towel and place in warm place until doubled in size (approx. 5 hours). Divide dough into three pieces and roll each into a long rope. Braid them and curve into circle, pinching ends together. Or divide into two smaller braided loaves. Cover with clean kitchen towel and let rise in a warm place again for 40 minutes. Brush top and sides of challah with egg wash and sprinkle with seeds (optional). Line a baking tray with parchment paper and sprinkle with cornmeal. Bake in 350 degree preheated oven 30-40 minutes depending on loaf size, until golden brown.

The film Searching for Bobby Fischer

The film Searching for Bobby Fischer

There is a resurgence of interest in the game of chess these days, probably brought on by the popular series "The Queen's Gambit," which if you haven't seen, is well worth watching. Here I take you back to a family movie I enjoyed many years ago which is currently available on netflix, Searching for Bobby Fischer," about a young chess prodigy. It is a real New York story, full of wonderful scenes of Washington Square Park, based on truth and the life of Joshua Waitzkin. It is also a touching story about parenthood and misguided expectations we often have for our children.


painting of the week

Pam Smilow  Pink Composition with Purple Ladder   mixed media on canvas   54” x 80” approx.

Pam Smilow Pink Composition with Purple Ladder mixed media on canvas 54” x 80” approx.

My favorite pink painting which hangs in the entry of a beautiful home in Northern California. Perfect for this Valentine's Day.


“A man dies when he refuses to stand up for that which is right. A man dies when he refuses to stand up for justice. A man dies when he refuses to take a stand for that which is true.” — Dr Martin Luther King Jr


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About The Author

New York City based contemporary artist, Pam Smilow created the creative lifestyle blog “things we love” in an effort to foster a sense of community during times of isolation and reflection. To read more about her, check out the essay written by the Hammond Museum's Frank Matheis entitled The Sophisticated Innocence of Pam Smilow.

blog no. 6: P.S. 22 Chorus, Brian Weiss, Stephen Wiltshire


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I never thought of myself as a writer but producing this blog is bringing me an enormous sense of pleasure. I truly do love the things I am sharing with you and revisiting them again myself brings me joy and inspiration. Thank you so much for reading my new venture, please consider forwarding it to friends if you feel so inclined, and I welcome any comments, reactions and suggestions you might have for me (you will find the comment section all the way down in the bottom of this post just below the keywords after my photograph). It is always good to get some honest feedback.


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Music Teacher Greg Breinberg, with his student PS 22 Chorus

Music Teacher Greg Breinberg, with his student PS 22 Chorus

Celebrate the teacher! With Jill Biden in the White House, maybe these incredibly important people in our society will finally get their due. Inspiring music teacher Greg Breinberg is cream of the cream of the crop and his amazing PS 22 Chorus, out of a working class Staten Island public school, shows his magic in action. Some of you might have heard of these children as their youtube videos have gone viral for years...Here I share such a nice a rendition of Leonard Cohen's Hallelujah. Watch the longer joyous documentary to see the power of the arts to transform children's lives and the story behind how they ended up performing for millions at the Academy Award Ceremony in 2011.

Many Lives Many Masters, a book that changed my life view

Many Lives Many Masters, a book that changed my life view

The book Many Lives Many Masters was suggested to me from a friend just after I lost my husband, Gert, in 2013. I can tell you that it literally changed my life, opened my mind, and set me on a new and spiritual path of exploration that continues today, almost eight years later. Having a skeptical mind and someone who has trouble shutting off the rational part of my brain, believing that consciousness survives your body was something I never would have entertained. Having the Yale and Columbia educated Dr. Brian Weiss, respected head of psychiatry at Mt. Sinai Hospital in Miami Beach, Florida, a total skeptic himself, tell his story of a certain patient that transformed him and his whole life view got me going to take the first steps in believing that maybe, just maybe, this is not all there is.

Artist Stephen Wiltshire

Artist Stephen Wiltshire

I have long been fascinated by the human brain and things that we cannot yet explain about its inner workings. Savant syndrome is a rare condition in which individuals, often with an autism diagnosis, exhibit abilities that far exceed what we might consider as "normal." In this amazing story, Stephen Wiltshire is an extraordinary example: with his photographic memory and his interest in cityscapes, Wiltshire can fly briefly over a city, in this case, Rome, reproduce it completely and accurately on paper, down to exact details including number of columns and windows in every building. To see a longer video about Stephen, click here. If you want to find out more about savant syndrome, and other intriguing individuals with extraordinary abilties, this short documentary should be a good introduction.


painting of the week

Gert Mathiesen   Facebook   70” x 77.5”   acrylic on canvas

Gert Mathiesen Facebook 70” x 77.5” acrylic on canvas

If I had to pick one painting of Gert's, it probably would be this one. I love the colors he chose and its scale...and it contains all the themes he cherished: people, ceramics, flowers, fish, animals...If you look closely, you can see some writing in the background. Gert used to gesso my canvases for me and would leave me little love notes on it afterwards. On this one, I answered back. To see other paintings of his, click on the image above.


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About The Author

New York City based contemporary artist, Pam Smilow created the creative lifestyle blog “things we love” in an effort to foster a sense of community during times of isolation and reflection. To read more about her, check out the essay written by the Hammond Museum's Frank Matheis entitled The Sophisticated Innocence of Pam Smilow.

blog no. 5: Women Leaders, Roz Chast, Brazilian vegetarian boy, Anna Breytenbach


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Feels like we are on the cusp of some new good things but I am still full of a lot of trepidation. Will the pandemic ever be over? Will the vaccines work against the new strains? Will we escape this attack on our democracy intact? Will America ever live up to its ideals of liberty and justice for all? So many uncertainties lie in our future. But then this video came along, sent from some friends in California, and it put a big smile on my face. Keep hope alive--look what is happening while the world has been distracted!


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New Yorker Cartoonist Roz Chast’s insider guide to New York City.

New Yorker Cartoonist Roz Chast’s insider guide to New York City.

New Yorker Cartoonist Roz Chast's humor is definitely of my time and just thinking of some of her cartoons makes me smile. Roz grew up in Brooklyn, New York and moved out of the city to raise her kids in Connecticut, to put some distance between her and her parents (if you read another of her great books Can't We Talk About Something More Pleasant, you will understand). Her latest book was written for her NYC college bound daugher as instructions on how-to navigate New York City. Going Into Town: A Love Letter to New York is in my mind the perfect practical insider's travel guide for anyone who wants to familiarize themselves with NYC life and all the insider tricks of the trade. There will be a day when we go can go around without worrying about catching a virus so this is a book we NYC lovers can all look forward to. And in the hopefully near future, it will be a must buy as a gift for house guests visiting our great city or for anyone wanting to just "get" New York.

Watch Luis Antonio  come to the realization of what is for dinner…

Watch Luis Antonio come to the realization of what is for dinner…

This is a short and very sweet and touching video. It features the innocence of a child, in this case a very adorable little Brazilian boy, as he discovers what his dinner consists of. Sometimes it takes the simplicity of a child's view of the world to wake us up and make us see something afresh.

Animal communicator Anna Breytenbach with the black leopard Spirit

Animal communicator Anna Breytenbach with the black leopard Spirit

I always thought if we humans are so smart, how come we don't know what the birds are saying? I have been very interested in the subject of animal intelligence and animal communication ever since I was a kid and I read my first book on the subject called "How Smart Are Animals." From then on, I knew that common knowledge that humans were the only ones with superior intelligence, self reflection and the ability to use tools was not true. I think discoveries in the field of interspecies communication will lead us to the next big frontier--an art that the ancients and indigenous peoples across the globe knew very well intuitively but which most of us have totally lost touch with today. South African Anna Breytenbach is a leader and powerhouse in this field. This short video will blow your mind: watch Breytenbach "talk" to a rare beautiful black leopard and get answers back. If you are interested in learning more and you don't think I am totally crazy (I'm not), an hour long, fascinating interview with Anna and her American animal tracker mentor Jon Young is well worth a listen. For those of you with kids, Anna has even written a children's book about this black leopard entitled How Diablo Became Spirit (in collaboration with Andrew Newman).


painting of the week

Pam Smilow   Nature   mixed media on canvas   56 x 100” approx.

Pam Smilow Nature mixed media on canvas 56 x 100” approx.

I picked a darker piece this week, not because I am necessarily in a darker mood but it is winter and it is getting pretty cold right now here in NYC. This large painting hangs in a huge mansion on a big hill in San Francisco's Pacific Heights. It's an old painting that was purchased many many moons ago. I don't usually miss my work but there is something about this one that holds a special place in my heart.


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About The Author

New York City based contemporary artist, Pam Smilow created the creative lifestyle blog “things we love” in an effort to foster a sense of community during times of isolation and reflection. To read more about her, check out the essay written by the Hammond Museum's Frank Matheis entitled The Sophisticated Innocence of Pam Smilow.

blog no. 4: Irmi, Young at Heart Chorus, Jeong Kwan


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I didn't realize how much fun I would have writing this creative lifestyle blog and I hope that this comes across in my posts. I have an ongoing list of things that I want to write about and people whose lives I want to call attention to. There is so much inspiration out there!

Catching a glimpse of light has made me aware that the tunnel we have been in has been deeper and darker than I even thought...We came very close to losing our democracy and we must remain totally vigilant lest it happens again. But for now, how great, as CNN's Van Jones put it, that "the stutterer won over the bully."

Please consider giving me your feedback in the comment section below and if you like what you see, I'd so appreciate your forwarding this new blog to anyone you think might be interested. Thank you so much and stay safe out there!


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Portrait of Irmi Selver by her daughter in law Cappy Coates

Portrait of Irmi Selver by her daughter in law Cappy Coates

The documentary film IRMI tells the interesting life story of German Jewish refugee, Irmi Selver, based on a personal memoir she originally wrote for the eyes and ears of her two grandchildren, read in the film by the German actress, Hanna Schygulla. Included as one of the featured films in the upcoming New York Jewish Film Festival (don't worry--you don't have to be Jewish to enjoy the Jewish film festival!), her story is told lovingly by two long time filmmakers and dear friends, Veronica Selver, (Irmi's daughter) in the Bay Area and Susan Fanshel in New York City, a cross-country collaboration! Irmi had an indomitable spirit, and yet her life was laced with unthinkable tragedy. I had the good fortune of knowing her personally and I see her in my mind's eye standing in her bright yellow kitchen, full of life, with her huge infectious smile and her familiar German accented voice loud and clear. Irmi's journey took many turns, over two continents, through wartime and a lot of different kinds of experiences--what we walk away with is the strength of the human spirit and most of all, her resilience. IRMI will be available for screening on January 26th, 27th, and 28th. Purchase $12 tickets here for the virtual screening and sign up for a special Q and A Zoom session with the filmmakers on January 27th here.

Young at Heart Chorus

Young at Heart Chorus

You might have heard of the Young at Heart Chorus out of Northampton, Massachusetts or seen the wonderful documentary about them. To beccome a member of this singing group, you have to be over 70 and this is no ordinary old people's choir. Led by the only youngster in the bunch, Bob Climan (he's in his sixties and started out playing piano at a senior citizen community center), the group plays a variety of his musical favorites which include a repetoire of punk rock and rock and roll. There is a documentary about them that is pure pleasure and a must see. But here I want to share with you a very special moving performance by Young at Heart chorus member, Fred Knittle of the Cold Play song Fix You, that touched me deeply, mostly because it shows that if you have soul, you don't need anything else. One of the participating instruments in this performance is an oxygen machine! I will never hear Fix You in the same way again.

Jeong Kwan, Zen Buddhist Nun and World Renowned Chef. Drawing by German artist Alice Pelzi (https://www.portrait52.com/blog/jeong-kwan)

Jeong Kwan, Zen Buddhist Nun and World Renowned Chef. Drawing by German artist Alice Pelzi (https://www.portrait52.com/blog/jeong-kwan)

I love to eat good food, explore different types of cuisine, dine out, and find great restaurants near me. (Hopefully we will get back to that when the Covid 19 Pandemic is over.) In the meantime, I am a big fan of many of the cooking shows and definitely consider myself a "foodie." I also realize that cooking can be a highly creative venture not far from other fine arts and chefs can be true artists in the real sense of the word. Chef's Table is one of my favorite food shows and this episode that I highlight here stands out above the others for me. Jeong Kwan is no ordinary chef. She is first and foremost a Korean Buddhist nun and her temple cooking predates farm to table by thousands of years. She champions simplicity and vegan cooking at its absolute best. Watching this episode, I am reminded of how simple, good clean living can be. Watch Netflix's Season 3, Episode One here.


painting of the week

Pam Smilow, Lavender Tree, mixed media on canvas, 50” x 80” , $8500

Pam Smilow, Lavender Tree, mixed media on canvas, 50” x 80” , $8500

I chose this painting of mine this week, Lavender Tree, for its softness, its peacefulness and because it is a dreamy one. I thought it was particularly apt as we emerge from four years of being fed lies, negativity and hate. And then I realized too that these colors are the colors of Kamala Harris and Jill Biden's coats on Inauguration Day! My favorite image of January 20th, 2021 was of the four of them: Joe Biden, Jill Biden, Kamala Harris and Doug Emhoff, on the east steps of the U.S. Capitol, standing proudly in all their glory. I loved the colors--the jewel tones against the grey steps, and the combination of Kamala's purples against Jill's turquoise teals. My art is often based on these types of color sequences, where I stay in the same family of colors rather than mixing a palette of opposing ones.


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About The Author

New York City based contemporary artist, Pam Smilow created the creative lifestyle blog “things we love” in an effort to foster a sense of community during times of isolation and reflection. To read more about her, check out the essay written by the Hammond Museum's Frank Matheis entitled The Sophisticated Innocence of Pam Smilow.

blog no. 3: On Tyranny, John Dillermand, Sarabeth's Tomato Soup, Eugene Goodman


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Although this is my attempt to celebrate good news during these very challenging times, I want to bring to your attention a very important book that my sister Judy, who was always ahead of her time, bought for me a number of years ago when it first came out in 2017: On Tyranny by Tim Snyder. Judy and I spent many a phone conversation ranting and raving about politics, the state of our nation and wondered why people were not more outraged at what was going on. Daughters of a mother who grew up in Nazi Germany, we had the anxiety and fear of tyranny in our bones. This little book says it all and is an absolute must read for every American these days...
And thanks to everyone for your encouragement and very positive feedback about my new blog. I am getting a great amount of pleasure out of writing and researching it every week. Keep the comments coming, share it if you like and I love when people share some of their good news finds with me too.


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You won’t believe this new Danish Children’s TV Series

You won’t believe this new Danish Children’s TV Series

I have a special place in my heart for the Danes. Not only because I was married to one or because of the fact that they were able to save every one of their Jews during WWII. Having spent quite a bit of time there, I know that they have a very high level of education, are often nonconformist and think in very outside of the box, creative ways. They also have, in my opionion, a very refreshing and unihibited way of looking at the human body. Where else in the world could you find a sizeable amount of the elderly population taking a leisurely early morning dip in the sea on a summer morning, stark naked at the age of 80? And so why am I not surprised at all about the latest Danish children’s TV show featuring John Dillermand (Weinerman) and his Magic Penis. Read on here before you get outraged…

A Delicious Recipe

A Delicious Recipe

When I was a kid, one of my favorite lunches was a can of Campbell's tomato soup. I can just see myself at the kitchen table crushing saltines into it. Although I would never go near canned soup of any type nowadays, I did find the gourmet version of this ultimate comfort food at a mainstay and well loved establishment in New York City: Sarabeth's Kitchen. Thanks to Pinterest and Epicurious, I have now come across Sarabeth's recipe for this beloved and coveted Velvet Tomato Soup. Enjoy this ultimate comfort food during this exhausting and scary time in American history. Trust me, go right into the kitchen and make this. My mouth is watering as I type these words...

Hero Eugene Goodman

Hero Eugene Goodman

If you had any doubt that one person could make a difference and change history, think no more. Enough cannot be said about Capitol Policeman Eugene Goodman. He was the officer who single-handedly more than likely prevented a massacre at the U.S. Capitol building last week by leading the rabid mob of insurrectionists away from the Senate Chambers where our lawmakers were holed up and hiding. Here are the details about how this unsung hero saved the day.


painting of the week

Pam Smilow, Yellow Spruce Series: Gray   mixed media on canvas   50” x 80”  $8500.

Pam Smilow, Yellow Spruce Series: Gray mixed media on canvas 50” x 80” $8500.

This painting has all my signature elements: trees, birds, polka dots, stripes, collage, mixed media elements. My vocabulary is rooted in nature and things that I observe that attract me. I paint intuitively, often in series, and usually stick to an "in the family of color" palette. In this case, grays with pops of blue and green gold...


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About The Author

New York City based contemporary artist, Pam Smilow created “things we love” in an effort to foster a sense of community during times of isolation and reflection.

blog no. 2: National Dance Institute, Surviving Death, Leonard Cohen


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I always wanted to start a TV network which would be Good News 24/7. Call me naive but I feel if we are shown the true heroes of our society: the teachers, the nurses, the human rights activists, the good samaritans, or as Mr. Rogers said, "the helpers" instead of the dregs, we would all be inspired to rise to the occasion.

This blog, which I will send out every Sunday morning, is my small attempt to remind us that good can win over evil, that the arts are the mainstay of human existence, that we must work hard to fight for what is right and that democracy is not a bystander sport. Here goes Blog Post Number Two.


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National Dance Institute is one of my favorite non-profits. They use dance and music to instill in students a love of the arts, a passion for learning and a sense of confidence. Seeing them perform in person is such a joyous experience but you can watch them here in the meantime. Their Birmingham Children’s March, choreographed by the brilliant Kay Gaynor, is so beautiful and timely. Watch here.

For those of you who know me, you know I have experienced a lot of loss in my life. When my husband died suddenly in 2013, I set out to understand everything I could about death and dying. It has been my passion ever since and I have read extensively on the subject. In 2017, along came Leslie Kean's excellent book "Surviving Death: A Journalist Investigates Evidence of an Afterlife" and it basically was a summary of everything I had studied in one single book. I was so happy to see that this has now become a six-part Netflix documentary series entitled Surviving Death. It might just blow your mind--you will never think of life again in the same way.

Leonard Cohen and Marianne Ihlen in Hydra, Greece Photo Courtesy of Babis Mores/Roadside Attractions

Leonard Cohen and Marianne Ihlen in Hydra, Greece Photo Courtesy of Babis Mores/Roadside Attractions

I've only been a groupie to one musician in my life: Leonard Cohen. My interest in him, his music and his poetry has not subsided at all since my teenage years. I have been particularly touched by the lifelong relationship of Leonard and his Norwegian love Marianne Ihlen, inspiration to many of his songs and poetry. Here I share a somewhat obscure interview about her and Leonard, given by an old friend of Marianne's. Very touching...


painting of the week

Gert Mathiesen, Longer Boats Neon Linoleum Cut, mixed media linocut on paper, 38” x 82 inches, available as a giclee print in various sizes

Gert Mathiesen, Longer Boats Neon Linoleum Cut, mixed media linocut on paper, 38” x 82 inches, available as a giclee print in various sizes

My late husband, Danish painter, printmaker and potter Gert Mathiesen was my partner in crime for over twenty five years. In addition to doing our own art, we often collaborated. His work and the memory of his spirit continues to inspire me every day. Gert carved this particular large linoleum piece while sitting at a table on the beach in Puerto Rico--in the sun, he said, it would cut like butter.


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About The Author

New York City based contemporary artist, Pam Smilow created “things we love” in an effort to foster a sense of community during times of isolation and reflection.

our new blog: Krista Tippett, Crip Camp, Heather Cox Richardson


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My dad, the mid-century modern furniture designer Mel Smilow, always wanted everyone to love all the things he loved and was passionate about sharing his favorites with everyone who would listen, whether it be something he just ate, a favorite movie, a person he admired…

Living alone during times of COVID, I find myself wanting to share things that inspire me too, so I decided to write a blog. Here goes Blog Post Number One. I hope people will come to value my choices and share with me my passions.


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I look forward to 7am Sunday mornings (who gets up that early on a Sunday?) although in this modern age we can listen to ON BEING, Krista Tippett’s podcast, any time of the day or night. She consistently has guests that are people I want to know and learn more about. Last week's offering was Gaelynne Lea: “…a fiddler and singer-songwriter…in an electric wheelchair,” but any one of her episodes are worth the listen.

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On the subject of disabilities, if you haven’t seen Crip Camp, the second in the series of Netflix films selected by Michelle and Barack Obama, don’t miss it—a true inspirational gem…

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And my third selection of the week is about someone I have come to rely on for political news in a historical context: Heather Cox Richardson, Letters from an American. One daily email each morning gives you all the news you need on our current American state of affairs without sensation, purely informative and just the facts …To subscribe, click here.


painting of the week

Pam Smilow, Sole Tree in Red, 50” x 80”, mixed media on canvas

Pam Smilow, Sole Tree in Red, 50” x 80”, mixed media on canvas

Nature almost always has a presence in my paintings. Sometimes while I am driving, I feel my heart start to beat faster at the site of a beautiful tree…Did you know these regal entities communicate with each other by way of smells, tastes and sounds, warn can each other of danger, and thrive in a complex web of interconnectedness? These and many more facts I found in a book I just finished, The Hidden Life of Trees, by Peter Wohlleben.


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About The Author

New York City based contemporary artist, Pam Smilow created “things we love” in an effort to foster a sense of community during times of isolation and reflection.